You like the rug. You like the striped curtain sample. The floral fabric for the armchair looks good beside both. Put them together, though, and the room starts to feel busier than you intended.
Before discarding a favourite, look at what each pattern is doing. How strongly does it stand out from its background? How large are its shapes? How much of the room will it cover? A narrow stripe on a cushion is a different proposition from the same stripe across two full curtains. These questions give you something more useful to adjust than a rule about how many patterns a room may contain.
Decide how much attention the rug should get
Start with the part of the rug you actually see around the furniture. If a coffee table covers the central medallion, its border may contribute more to the room than its centre. A red rug with a dark blue border offers several possible connections: red upholstery, blue curtains, a cream fabric that picks up pale details, or a quieter surface that leaves the whole rug distinct.
Decide which relationship you want before collecting more samples. For a rug that remains the most noticeable textile, try a plain sofa and a restrained curtain pattern. If you want a more layered room, let another fabric make a clear contribution. The rug can share attention without losing its place.
Kit Kemp and Honor Devereux, interviewed in House & Garden's discussion of pattern mixing, describe combining different scales and textures, with plain areas or trims interrupting the patterns. That need not mean a beige room. A solid blue sofa can provide a pause between a floral curtain and an intricate rug while still adding a substantial area of colour.

Change contrast before rejecting a pattern
Look first at the difference between a fabric's motif and its ground, the background behind the design. A pale stripe on deep navy has a different presence from two neighbouring blue-grey tones. Both are striped fabrics; their effect beside the rug can be quite different.

In this comparison, the left curtain has a sharper light-dark rhythm. The right curtain still has a visible stripe, but asks for less attention beside the rug. Neither is the correct answer. Choose the stronger version if that graphic window is part of the room you want; try the quieter one if you keep noticing the curtain when you meant to enjoy the rug.
This is also why counting motifs can be misleading. A finely detailed rug in closely related colours may be less assertive in your room than a simple, high-contrast check. Look at the whole textile from your usual seat, not only at a close photograph of its pattern.
Compare the size of the repeat at room distance
Next, compare scale: the size and spacing of the shapes. In the second illustration, the curtain colours stay the same while the stripe widens. The broad bands read as larger blocks beside the rug's smaller details. The narrow bands create a finer repeated rhythm across the window.

For a rug full of small repeated flowers, you might try a broader curtain stripe, then a fine one. With a large central rug motif, try a smaller upholstery pattern as one alternative. The point of the comparison is to discover a relationship you like, not to assign every textile a compulsory small, medium or large label.
In Busola Evans's interviews about pattern scale, Chloe Willis explains that small prints can become more like a textured plain as the viewer moves away. The designers also differ on how much surface a large motif needs. That is a useful reason to see a generous sample in position, rather than reject a print because its repeat looks enormous in your hand.

The same fabric can have a different job on a sofa
A small sample board gives every fabric almost equal billing. Your room will not. Curtains may occupy most of a wall when closed; a sofa can stretch across your view; one cushion occupies a much smaller area. Before committing to upholstery, ask how often the motif will repeat across the actual piece.

The first room leaves most of the sofa plain, so the small floral cushion sits as an accent above the rug. In the second, the repeated flowers become a major part of the seating area. Keeping the curtains plain gives that larger floral surface room to stand out. Try this arrangement if you want the seating to contribute as much pattern as the floor.
Also consider where a design will be interrupted. A large flower may be cropped by an arm, split between cushions or partly hidden in curtain folds. Ask the upholsterer or curtain maker to show how the repeat will fall on the finished piece. A fabric you enjoy laid flat may offer a different composition once made up.

A designer's curtain change shows why context matters
Emily Henderson's account of choosing café curtains for her farmhouse kitchen is a useful example of revising a choice after seeing more of it. She initially made panels from a white-ground block print with green and grey. She liked it in daylight, but found it too bright and busy against the dark windows after sunset.
She then tried existing indigo Boro panels from the living room and preferred their relationship to the blue kitchen and the windows at night. She also liked having simpler, neutral curtains in the adjoining living room. This was her judgement about her own home, not proof that dark fabrics are always calmer. What makes the example useful is that the decision changed when the fabric occupied the windows and was seen alongside another room.
Make a fabric trial that resembles the finished room
Borrow or order the largest useful samples available. Hold curtain fabric vertically and gather some of it into loose folds. Drape upholstery fabric over the part of the chair or sofa where it would be used. Leave the rug down, with the usual furniture in place, so the trial includes the patterns that will actually remain visible.
Look from the doorway and from your usual seat, with curtains both open and closed if possible. Try it when you normally use the room. If something feels too busy, make one clear comparison: a softer contrast, a different repeat size, or less patterned surface. Keep the other choices steady long enough to see whether that particular adjustment helps.
If the unresolved decision is the paint behind these textiles, our guide to wall colours around an existing rug works through that separately. For the fabrics, start with the piece you are least certain about. Seeing a larger sample over the sofa for an evening can tell you more than adding another ten little squares to a board.
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